Ryan Shay, One year later, by Larry Eder

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I remember the Men's Olympic Trials marathon in New York last year with

mixed emotions. It was just about ten miles into the race that Tom Carleo, then at Saucony asked me if I had heard what happened to Ryan Shay. I remember getting on my phone and checking with some friends on the course who saw the ambulance. The news was not good. Ryan had fallen on the course and he was in trouble.

I knew Ryan through the two Joes-Joe Piane, long time coach of Notre Dame and Joe Vigil, long time coach, friend and recently coach of Ryan Shay. I had been with Joe Piane when Ryan had a huge breakthrough at 10,000 meters at the Stanford Distance Carnival. I remember Joe's smile, and pride in one of his runners putting it all together. It reminded me of how he had been when Chuck Aragon, one of his athletes in the eighties, had been running so well.

I am not sure if I had ever met Ryan. I heard stories of him, watched him race and the community of distance runners, Ryan was, in my terms, a good egg. He ran hard, trained hard and had a great sense of humor.

Joe Vigil spoke of his potential. Ryan had tested very well, and he was handling the workouts that Joe believed would make him into a tremendous marathoner. Ryan raced frequently, and was in tremendous shape for the 2008 Trials. I had picked him in the top six.

His death, which apparently was near immediate, added a bitter taste to the event. When the top three, Ryan Hall, Dathan Ritzenhein and Bryan Sell, heard after their race, they were visibly moved. My trip home that afternoon was not restful, as I just wanted to grab my son, who was turning twenty-one the next day, and hold him. All I could think of was the preciousness of life, and how the lives of all who knew Ryan Shay would be changed forever.

Now, a year later, the feelings are still there. At a ceremony commemorating the one year anniversary of Ryan Shay's passing, the company that sponsored Ryan, Saucony, showed some class and thoughtfulness. Roses were placed at the rock noting where Ryan had fallen. A club of young runners ran the final mile to the finish, completing the run for Ryan. And finally, a bench was dedicated to Ryan with a plaque, (shown above), for all to see, and know that Ryan Shay had been there, and as Mary Wittenberg, the CEO of the New York Road Runners noted, and his spirit continued to shine.

There were some humorous stories from two of his Notre Dame classmates, who remembered his impish sense of humor, his work effort and his friendship. Many from the running community, Alicia Shay, widow of Ryan, her family, and extended family, were all there, as well as many from the Saucony team,to pay their respects to an athlete who was such a part of this popular brand.

How will I remember Ryan Shay? I shall remember him running the only way he knew-with all of his ability and all of his heart. His unfortunate death, at his young age, I do not understand. But, as my faith would suggest, I do accept.

I am not sure how much comfort that is to his family and friends. Ryan Shay lived his life with very few compromises, good runs, great races, and tough races. He lived, he loved and he was loved. His friends and family miss him terribly, and each day, somehow, go on with their lives. My guess is that would make Ryan happy.


RYAN SHAY REMEMBERED WITH BENCH DEDICATION

IN CENTRAL PARK

Family and friends return one year later in celebration of runner’s life

NEW YORK, NY (November 1, 2008) – Earlier today, amidst the spectacular foliage of Central Park, a memorial bench was dedicated in perpetuity to Ryan Shay at a private ceremony attended by family, friends and former Notre Dame teammates. Saucony, Inc., a leading global supplier of performance athletic footwear and apparel, hosted the tribute to honor Shay, a longtime friend and sponsored athlete. Shay, one of America’s top distance runners, collapsed and died 5.5 miles into the U.S. Olympic Marathon Trials in New York City’s Central Park last November.

“This is the first time that I’ve been back in New York, the first time that I’ve seen where Ryan fell,” said Alicia Shay, the wife of the nine-time All-American and an elite runner herself. “It was difficult, but to be surrounded by family and friends at this special place made it a healing experience for all of us. I am so grateful and blessed to have this opportunity to say thank you to all who remember Ryan. I hope everyone will be inspired every time they pass his bench,” she added.

“Today is a celebration of Ryan’s life,” said Richie Woodworth, president of Saucony. “We wanted to honor Ryan in an enduring way, in this beautiful park, surrounded by the running community he loved. We hope as runners pass this bench, they will take a moment to reflect on a life lived with strength and determination while gaining inspiration to live their own to its fullest,” he said.

The plaque that will adorn the bench is engraved with a quote from Shay, reading: “It is necessary to dig deep within oneself to discover the hidden grain of steel called will.”


Woodworth presented a rendition of the plaque to Alicia Shay, a former two-time 10,000 meter champion at Stanford and a Saucony sponsored athlete as well.

To begin the morning’s ceremony, a local group of youth runners ran Shay’s final mile down Central Park’s East Drive, carrying a wreath of red and white roses with a ribbon bearing the 2003 U.S. Marathon Champion’s name.

About Saucony, Inc.: Saucony, Inc., a subsidiary of Collective Brands and a division of The Stride Rite Corporation is a leading global supplier of performance athletic footwear and apparel with its widely recognized brands Saucony and Saucony Originals. For more information, go to www.saucony.com.


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Ryan was my hero and my dearest friend. He remains with me in spirit every day and has had an awesome influence on my life. One of his Notre Dame team mates gave me a bracelet on Sunday "In Memory of Ryan Shay". I will wear it always. I ran through the park several times and passed Ryan's rock and the beautiful flowers. I am so touched at the way Ryan is remembered. I know he is happy and proud of the meaning his life has given to so many.

I only met Ryan once. He was the younger brother of my good friend and college teammate at Lubbock Christian University, Case Shay.

It was at the NAIA Outdoor T&F Championships. Ryan had just graduated high school and would be running for Notre Dame in the fall. I was introduced to Ryan and only talked to him briefly. But I knew him through his big brother's pride in him. Case was beaming when he introduced Ryan to us and he could barely contain his joy at the fact that his brother was there to watch him compete.

So I didn't know Ryan very well, but I know from the impact he had on those around him, that he will be greatly missed.

I'm looking forward to meeting Ryan again when we join him in Heaven.

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